戀愛在蠶蝕我 如地網天羅

你說，7年的感情，話完就完，愛情真的好兒戲。
其實開初已經知道不合適，只是相信時間，以為付出了光陰，總會有回報。
如果時間換不到感情，那這7年半算是互相蹉跎嗎？

又聽到另一個你說，單身已經7年多了，很可怕。
如果要選擇，與不信的一起或單身，寧願選擇不信的人。
似乎找到一個他才是治療焦慮的方法。


我還未經歷7年的感情
也未試過7年的單身

但我看到等候久了的無力感
也體會到與錯先生一起的痛苦

只是站在隔岸
怎樣焦急也無能為力


唯有恆切地為你們禱告


"Dear God, I prayed, all unafraid
(as we're inclined to do),
I do not need a handsome man
but let him be like You;
I do not need one big and strong
nor yet so very tall,
nor need he be some genius,
or wealthy, Lord, at all;
but let his head be high, dear God,
and let his eye be clear,
his shoulders straight, whate'er his state,
whate'er his earthly sphere;
and let his face have character,
a ruggedness if soul,
and let his whole life show, dear God,
a singleness of goal;
then when he comes
(as he will come)
with quiet eyes aglow,
I'll understand that he's the man
I prayed for long ago."

— Ruth Bell Graham